french-faguette asked: You are the most well dressed man I've ever seen. Honestly, I follow your blog because you have such great style and it's really inspiring (especially when you post the links to cheap finds). I've never really talked you you but you seem like such an amazing dude. Keep on keepin' on man!
Thank you so much!! It’s been a long day today (I’m currently in Army Air Assault school), and this helped cheer me up a bit!
"Quite honestly, my objection to rape jokes is not even because I particularly find the jokes personally triggering anymore; I generally just find them pathetic and inexplicable. And while I’m bothered by the fact that the jokes normalize and effectively minimize the severity of rape and thus perpetuate the rape culture, I’m more bothered by the thought of a woman who’s recently been raped, who’s just experienced what may be the worst thing that will ever happen to her, and goes to the site of her favorite webcomic, or turns on the telly, or goes to the cinema, or a comedy club, to have a much-needed laugh—only to see that horrible, life-changing thing used as the butt of a joke. I don’t understand—and I don’t believe I ever will—why anyone wants to be the person who sends that shiver down her spine, who makes her eyes burn hot with tears at an unwanted memory while everyone else laughs and laughs."
This is the most spot on description of how I feel about rape jokes I’ve seen.
(Source: tenderbearhugs, via inkstainedqueer)
But I am still struggling with feeling like I am not enough.
But I’m better than I was.